Happy March!
The weather is changing. The light is staying longer. People are outside again. There’s movement in the air. And if you’re honest, you don’t feel like moving. Not because you don’t want to, but because you can’t. There is a difference.
Most women I work with are not struggling with motivation. They are struggling with capacity. You can want to go for the walk. You can want to clean out the garage. You can want to feel lighter. But if your nervous system has been bracing for years, energy is not available for expansion. It is being used for protection.
When the body lives in low-grade fight-or-flight, it burns fuel constantly. Even at rest. Even on the couch. Even while sleeping. That hum of internal vigilance costs more than we realize. So when spring comes and your body does not match the season, that is not a character flaw. It is a signal.
The body does not restore through force. It restores through safety. When the nervous system recognizes that it no longer has to brace, energy does not need to be manufactured. It returns.
If this feels familiar, pause before judging yourself. Your body may not be unmotivated. It may be overloaded. In Part 2 next Wednesday, we’ll talk about the hidden cost of always being the strong one — and why that role quietly drains more energy than you think.
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